Nothing Special

Hello all!
This part of the Whateverlution...is all about me. Call it an ongoing ever changing 'about the author' Dane Cook once said...A suicide note written by someone who is not suicidal is called an autobiography.

So what gives me the ability to speak out about the world? Why should anyone listen when I tell them about fitness, gaming, intellectual pursuits, the sociological ramifications of current world politics, and gummy worms?

Well that's something you're going to have to learn as you go. However if you want credentials, allow me to fill in a bit of my resume.

At 34 I have collected paychecks from over 30 different employers. I have built million dollar homes, I have driven a front end loader through mountains of trash, I've been to basic training and enjoyed some peace time national guard time, I've worked for restaurants, retail chains, and convenient stores and been a substitute teacher. However I have also spent over five years as a guard at a county jail AND 30 days as an inmate at a different county jail. (For CIVIL CONTEMPT-I couldn't afford to pay ALIMONY, and was subsequently put in jail, which caused me to lose my job with the Sheriff's Department)

My education involves an Associates degree, and 90 credits towards a BS in Mental Health and Human services, as well as a healthy interest in reference literature. School and I have never gotten along, I find it too rigid and constraining, I can learn more on my own.

The only things I know for sure...I've been pretty good at just about every job I've ever had. The closest to a job I actually liked was as a guard. I'm a people watcher and psychological dynamics fascinate me, plus I'm an adrenaline junkie and at the time thrived amidst the crazy fights, hangings, cut-ups etc etc. That being said I now have to pursue a different career, and this blog circle is part of it. It's a social and personal experiment. I know that everywhere I've gone, people tend to remember me. However despite being a quick learner, and intelligent and well-spoken, something seems to be holding me back. So I am now hoping to work from that into something here, maybe a job, maybe a career, maybe pocket money, time will tell.

Monday, November 26, 2012

the system a rant...raw



November 26th, 2012
I should be able to get my license back today.  There are 2~ 50 dollar reinstatement fees.  I have 101. dollars.  I also have 9 dollars in one debit card account, and 1 dollar in another.  I should have 120. Dollars cash coming my way later today or this week towards bills.  I took home a pinch over 800 dollars for a two week pay check just over a week ago.  I had to pay New Hampshire 360 dollars, for a fine.  I had to pay my cell phone bill.  I had to get food, and gas.  I still have that hundred dollar bill.  I’m wondering if the registry will have any other fees…if they do I probably can’t pay them unless they’re only 5.00 so I have this fear that even after all this…I still won’t have my license back today.  I need propane, and the electric bill is growing unpaid because I paid that fine.  I’m heating with just scrap wood.  Not even cord wood, pallet stock is the only thing that has raised the temperature of my house this year and It’s almost December.  I was really hoping to buy a bed this week.  I have been sleeping on a futon mattress for almost 4 months.  Yet it feels inherently irresponsible to buy a mattress set when my electric isn’t paid yet and the propane tank is empty.  I’ve been looking forward to a real bed for months…but those fines were so much money.  As a punishment for driving too fast, and driving a car too old to take a sticker that this has cost me 385.00 to Maine, and 360 to NH…almost 750.00 dollars…Money that could be keeping me warm, or keeping the lights on, or going towards repairs for my car…which needs to be registered again…but I only have so much money.
The license has to come first…I need to get to work, and driving without it…they can take you and lock you up…they do that, they have and they will again.  Then they charge you even more money…My crime is driving…my punishment is being reminded of exactly how poor I still am.  Then I think back…
Walking up to the York Jail…knowing I would be sleeping there, knowing they were looking for me, knowing they were in my driveway.  Approaching me like I was dangerous…I suppose I was, but not in the sense they thought.  I don’t own a gun.  The warrant wasn’t even in the system.  Civil Contempt…if I hadn’t had a copy of the warrant in my pocket they wouldn’t have been able to book me.  I helped book myself…it was an odd booking…a warrant with a sentence.  The guard who took my fingerprints had trained at Cumberland…I had worked a couple pods with him, and had been in on his first fight.  I knew every phase of the routine.  I got walked down to housing.  Resigned, but closed off.  I wasn’t afraid…I was fully ready to die so there was nothing in that building that I needed to worry about.  I refused protective custody.  Other inmates recognized me…I was a guard…in orange…it didn’t matter.  No one fought me.
The days crawled by.  30 of them…because I refused to pay 435.00 a week in support.  I couldn’t have paid it, I would have ended up homeless…Knowing I couldn’t do it without suffering and ultimately failing I didn’t try.  I paid my child support, I looked for leverage, an edge, anything that would get them to see reason.  I filed motions, begged for help, never paid my spousal support.  I ended up in jail.  They have power you see, they can take whatever they want away.  For a while I was resigned to knowing they would kill me, and that my only solace would be in finding a way to let everyone know how wrong what they had done was…something big, something that would make national news…I had a lot of ideas…I’m a thinker.  Ultimately I refused to be known as a nutcase, and couldn’t find a way to adequately shake the pillars without taking the rap of a madman.  What they did was wrong, I am still recovering.  I have an ability to work, or live…I can’t find a way to do both and am feeling that now.  However that is clearly another rant.  This one is about the system and what it does to the people who have nothing, but want to get their lives back.
I can barely afford my bills, when I can’t pay them they get harder to pay, as a penalty for failing.  If you lapse on things they charge you more.  Your cars can’t pass inspection, and always need work, still you try to get to work, Today is the second time I have called in sick to work in 8 months.  I needed it…there’s something in here that I’m working out.
It’s been a year and nine months, since I went to jail.  I lost my job while I was there.  When I got out, I was angry, I was broke.  I had unemployment, but DHS was taking 250 of the 359 a week they gave me.  I still had child support to pay.  I looked for work as an angry, paranoid basket case that had just gotten out of jail.  Somehow I still found work.  I worked hard all summer, made adequate money, my anger finally got the better of me and I quit when faced with attitude from a boss.  I bounced and worked, I fought the urge to die or kill every hour of every day.  I cried, I felt loss, I tried to fuck the state over, they had made me this way, taken everything, left me as something that wasn’t worthy of love or capable of work.  I feared working, feared them taking everything again, I applied for disability.  I have been working since I was 12 years old…I was convinced I couldn’t safely do it, either they would take everything or I would kill someone.  I told myself if that was what it came down to I would rather kill the people I blamed for it than someone who just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.  I knew I would probably die myself.  This was the fall of 2011…I paced the house, empty when no one else was there, my muscles on fire, my mind racing, violence coursing through every vein…how dare they take everything from me…There was only one thing left to give them…whatever was left…all my rage, all my hate…fire, fists, and pain…I was prepared to level city blocks…that was the magnitude of my rage.  There is also absolutely no exaggeration in that statement.  I know what a propane tank is capable of doing when it explodes.  I know how much chaos, smoke and fire, and explosions and screams causes.  I know how disorganized everything will be as people try to figure out what’s going on.  At that point I also knew that I wouldn’t survive it so my tactical options were wide open.  But I wanted to last long enough that they knew WHY it happened.  They needed to know that all of this was because they ruined someone…That if they had shown an ounce of reservation, fairness, or compassion, that they wouldn’t be dying on that day, but that they hadn’t that they had instead shown how powerful they could be and taken everything, daring me to do something about it…I was prepared to show them what power was…power is the ability to make someone else afraid.  They made me afraid for my life, they took comfort away from me, as a response I gave up caring about life and comfort…I refuse to allow anyone to take things I care about…my response is to care about less…it protects me…if they would hold work, life, and security over my head I would hold death and pain and fear over theirs.
That took a long time to get past.  Clearly reading my own words now, I’m not over it, not completely.  However now I’m working, I’ve clawed my way to a raise, and am close to a living wage with a room mate.  I can feed myself.  Now I’m trying to earn things that make me feel real, a real bed, a license so I don’t fear for my life every time I get in the car.  I’m so close, yet everything could slip away.  I need to get that license back to protect myself from going back under, yet I have to give up so much to do it, that it reminds me why I hate them…
I am not a terrorist.  I love the United States very much, but I now see what it’s like to live at the bottom of a long hill that plenty of shit rolls down.  It has sullied my taste for what I thought this country was…I have always thought that if you are willing to try you’d be ok, but sometimes they make it so hard, on the people who have it hardest.  My inspection sticker runs out in 35 days…I still need to register my car, but every time I pay a fine or fee, something else has to go unpaid…it could be electric, or heat, or food, it will probably be cable…cable is a luxury after all isn’t it…of course my registration will be about 200, and the cable is only 110 with internet…so I will probably also have to eat cheap next week, and I won’t be getting my bed or another car any time soon…so when my sticker runs out, and until my registration gets paid…I’ll be walking a line…waiting for the next fine…hoping I can pay it…somehow.

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