Nothing Special

Hello all!
This part of the Whateverlution...is all about me. Call it an ongoing ever changing 'about the author' Dane Cook once said...A suicide note written by someone who is not suicidal is called an autobiography.

So what gives me the ability to speak out about the world? Why should anyone listen when I tell them about fitness, gaming, intellectual pursuits, the sociological ramifications of current world politics, and gummy worms?

Well that's something you're going to have to learn as you go. However if you want credentials, allow me to fill in a bit of my resume.

At 34 I have collected paychecks from over 30 different employers. I have built million dollar homes, I have driven a front end loader through mountains of trash, I've been to basic training and enjoyed some peace time national guard time, I've worked for restaurants, retail chains, and convenient stores and been a substitute teacher. However I have also spent over five years as a guard at a county jail AND 30 days as an inmate at a different county jail. (For CIVIL CONTEMPT-I couldn't afford to pay ALIMONY, and was subsequently put in jail, which caused me to lose my job with the Sheriff's Department)

My education involves an Associates degree, and 90 credits towards a BS in Mental Health and Human services, as well as a healthy interest in reference literature. School and I have never gotten along, I find it too rigid and constraining, I can learn more on my own.

The only things I know for sure...I've been pretty good at just about every job I've ever had. The closest to a job I actually liked was as a guard. I'm a people watcher and psychological dynamics fascinate me, plus I'm an adrenaline junkie and at the time thrived amidst the crazy fights, hangings, cut-ups etc etc. That being said I now have to pursue a different career, and this blog circle is part of it. It's a social and personal experiment. I know that everywhere I've gone, people tend to remember me. However despite being a quick learner, and intelligent and well-spoken, something seems to be holding me back. So I am now hoping to work from that into something here, maybe a job, maybe a career, maybe pocket money, time will tell.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

A social experiment from the beginning


                I lived in Somerville Mass. for Pre-School and Kindergarten.  I lived in Arlington Mass. for first, second, and half of third grade.  Then I moved back to Somerville for the other half of third, fourth, fifth, and sixth grades.  I went to a Catholic Kindergarten, and a Catholic school for grades four through six.  Next we moved to Cambridge for seventh and Eighth grades, and I went to a K-8 school, not a middle school.  Cambridge was formulative, I started working.  I learned how much money and self sufficiency meant to me.
                Not that I hadn’t been self-sufficient for a long time already at that point.  In Kindergarten I used to have to walk from St. Catherine’s in Somerville to Daycare.  True it was only three or four blocks, but I was barely five.  However it was in first grade I got my first taste of who I was and what I was truly capable of.  Let me explain.  During February vacation my mother didn’t have childcare for me.  I had relatives in Vermont who worked from home, and were in a position to look after me for the week.  My mother took me to South Station in Boston; she bought me a bus ticket.  I had my bag, and some change for the vending machine.  The ticket man told us that kids under twelve couldn’t ride alone.  I was six.  My mother asked a black family who was also going to Burlington if I could ride with them.  “Sure he’ll fit right in.”  Their only concern was that someone would be there to pick me up.  At White River Junction, I got some candy from the vending machines and changed buses, asking to make sure I was on the right one.  When I got to Burlington, the bus was almost a half hour early.  No one was there.  At six years old I got out the phone book, looked my uncle up and called him on a payphone.  I went to Vermont for several years during February and April Vacations.  I always rode the same way.  Alone on the bus, but in subsequent visits no one stopped us to say anything.
          I had lived in 8 different homes before I graduated high school.  I went to 6 different schools.  Both High Schools that I went to asked me not to come back without expelling me.  I wasn't a thug, tyrant, or bad-ass I just didn't seem to fit within the school environment..I was a passive aggressive behavior problem.  Now I live in Maine and am quasi employed while I explore job options after the Sheriff's Dept, and Jail...
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